Facebook is a terrible place to have an argument about Duck Dynasty. We are at the perfect place where everybody knows and loves someone who is gay, but everybody also knows and loves their well-meaning grandpa that still spouts ridiculous old-timey bigoted comments around the Christmas dinner table. This year, remember that many homes will have grandpa Freddy and Aunt Jane (and her wife, Lily) right at that X-mas table. And they will still love each other. It's going to be ok.